
And so the month rolls ever onwards, and the days on flying past. It's 2002, "already", it's nearly autumn again and another year is racing past with just a few snippets in my mind for what has been and gone. Five months to go and the ever worrisome big three oh will arrive and the playtime numerical count of the twenties will roll past and despite what I am and how I act I will fell that a landmark has passed. So what happened? There's been life, love, laughs, ups and downs, and practically speaking 30 is likely a mid-low end point for midlife (60 not an inaccurate guesstimate of lifespan given my diabolical diet) and I look back at the threads and trails that have led me here, I can see what ifs and maybes and possibilities and, mostly, I believe that I have made the right choices for the most part, as they were available, and that all-in-all I have very little regrets or woes to bare basically about it all. I've got a decent job that pays a nice amount of cash, I have a house, car and a good bunch of friends. I'm not yet struck with any bizarre or twisted disease or overtly noticeable insanity and I still have use of all primary physical functions of my body. It's just that number looming that is worrying, I vividly remember back in my mid teens looking at the world ahead and wondering where and what I'd be when I hit thirty and what I'd be doing, I think mostly I would be happy that I'd be ending up here, true there's no architypical marriage and kids tm but that maybe isn't beyond the realms of possibility before extinction. So all in all not too bad.
So why the pre mid-life crisis? It's just the number, a number I hadn't actually ever planned, or thought about reaching in truth; I never had thought past the year 2000 for any of my plans or ideas for life and now two years on I find that I have no plan, no idea or direction for where I want to go, do or be after this, through the thirties and into the forties and what will be happening, no plan at all.
My mind blanks when I try to think about where tomorrow will be and often yesterday drifts into a vague dream of today, there is always only the now, the instant, this moment that I live and breath in that slips away, second by second, and vanishes and flows away like a stick caught in a river. No plans.
Caution; rare personal views on religion follow, may cause issues or offense; I think that this is one of the lures of religion and faith, and to an extent science (which is religion after a sense) they give an easier perception of where you are in the world, you no longer need to define, or deconstruct certain pretexts of the world because they have already been defined for you; but this I cannot do, I can't for myself accept what - even maybe science - things are laid out for me in this world, I don't want to have to rely on what others have determined existence is, which eternal essence has created me, I want to define and deconstruct what I am, what I mean and what I should do; free will, free thought, free perceptions. These are my most fundamental parts as a free thinking being, true I am "tainted", biased and influenced by all that I see, all those I talk to and all that I read - but that is part of what the world is, in investigating and examining it I become more part of it as I understand (such as I can) more of it, and in doing so I loose more of myself to it as less of myself becomes me and more of what the world plays to my mind with twin channel 3D technicolor.
Feed my mind and my senses and seduce me with your targeted concepts.
So, brain dump mostly completed now, and slightly more cohesive and comprehensible than my usual ones, ah the wonders of old age and the clarity of wisdom, ahem. Time is still running whatever, and that is the single truth I suppose, you can't change time (pending scientific creations which, since nothing has appeared to indicate anything from the future directly as of yet, tends to point into the negative for it ever being created - but I digress, always footnoting) but you can change reality by imposing yourself on it and those who live in it, no matter what you believe, at least in this stage of consciousness I think I'm still walking on the right path for now and if I do end up at the pearly gates at the end I can look ol' St.Peter/agent of the afterlife in the eye and honestly say "I always tried my best to do what I thought was right."
In the end, this world here and now is the only one we know we can change anyway...